Tag: intentional life

  • New Year, New Me? Or New Year, Same Me?

    As the new year begins, these two phrases often make their rounds. As I reflect on the year ahead, I find that a little of both resonate with me. At my core, I am still me—my values, my “bones,” remain steadfast. But how those values manifest in my life can evolve. Personal growth, whether intentional…

  • A Gift or a Testament to Dedication?

    The other evening, my cherished puppy Quila was lying peacefully in front of the Christmas tree. She wasn’t asleep—just quietly relaxing while keeping a loving eye on me. As the time for her evening treat approached, I turned to her. She lifted her head, made direct eye contact, and smiled in the way only a…

  • Always Do Your Best: Aligning with Honesty & Integrity

    The fourth principle of The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz—Always Do Your Best—resonates deeply with my core values of honesty and integrity. At its heart, this agreement serves as both a mantra and a stress reliever. By committing to doing your best in all your actions, communication, and endeavors, you can let go of…

  • Don’t Take Anything Personally – Embracing Authenticity

    The second principle from The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz—Don’t Take Anything Personally—deeply aligns with my value of authenticity. This agreement reminds us that others’ actions are a reflection of their own experiences, not a measure of our worth. My Personal Journey with This Agreement Learning to embrace this principle was one of the…

  • Intentional Life Coaching – My Calling

    Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a “great life,” yet feeling stifled, joyless, or disconnected? You’re successful, engaged in meaningful activities, but wake up on autopilot, going through the motions. Then, a book recommendation like The Crossroads of Should and Must lands in your hands, nudging you to pause and ask yourself—why?…

  • “Dwell in possibility”

    Emily Dickinson’s words, “Dwell in possibility,” speak to the heart of what it means to live intentionally and with purpose. To “dwell” means to reside, to linger, to make something our home. And possibility? That’s the openness to new ideas, opportunities, and ways of being. When we dwell in possibility, we choose to live with…

  • Just Breathe

    Are we born knowing how to breathe? I assumed so, until one Friday in 2019, during what I thought was a wonderfully relaxing massage. My massage therapist suddenly slapped his hand on my chest, jolting me out of my “relaxation.” He was concerned that I had stopped breathing. He had often suggested that I try…

  • When Will You Expire?

    My journey toward intentional living started decades ago, but two pivotal moments laid the foundation for the life I lead today. Back in 2007, I attended a free learning session at work on aging gracefully. The conference room was filled with colleagues, and after the host’s warm welcome, she handed each of us a small…