Author: intentionallifecoaching

  • The Power of Choice

    Doing What’s Right vs. What’s Allowed Sometimes in life, just because you have the right to do something doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the right thing to do. We live in a world where we are granted personal freedoms and autonomy over our choices. Yet, with great freedom comes great responsibility. The question isn’t always “Can…

  • We Rise by Lifting Others

    This week, I was reminded of the powerful quote: “We rise by lifting others.” — Robert Ingersoll I wholeheartedly believe in the essence of this statement. It serves as a reminder of the importance of community and the profound impact we can have when we uplift and support one another. Through kindness and generosity, mentorship…

  • It’s Not My Job

    A recent journaling prompt asked me to reflect on what defines me. My first thought was my core values—the principles that guide my life. From there, I considered how I strive to live by the Four Agreements, a set of powerful practices for personal freedom. Then my mind settled on a quote by Ralph Waldo…

  • Take Up Space!

    How often have you felt the need to shrink yourself—to quiet your voice, dull your dreams, or take a back seat in your own life? Maybe it was in a crowded meeting, a close relationship, or even in the pursuit of a personal goal. I spent many years shrinking. The belief that we should minimize…

  • “Quitting Day” and How to Make Strides in ’25

    Yesterday, January 10th, is often referred to as “Quitting Day”—the day when many abandon their New Year’s resolutions or goals. It’s startling to think that, on average, people give up after just 10 days. Why does this happen? A few reasons come to mind: When setting a goal or resolution—whether at the start of the…

  • New Year, New Me? Or New Year, Same Me?

    As the new year begins, these two phrases often make their rounds. As I reflect on the year ahead, I find that a little of both resonate with me. At my core, I am still me—my values, my “bones,” remain steadfast. But how those values manifest in my life can evolve. Personal growth, whether intentional…

  • A Gift or a Testament to Dedication?

    The other evening, my cherished puppy Quila was lying peacefully in front of the Christmas tree. She wasn’t asleep—just quietly relaxing while keeping a loving eye on me. As the time for her evening treat approached, I turned to her. She lifted her head, made direct eye contact, and smiled in the way only a…

  • Year-End Reflection: A Practice of Intentional Growth

    Inspired by John Maxwell’s wisdom, I’ve made it an annual tradition to dedicate time during the last week of the year to reflect on the past 12 months. This hour-long session allows me to pause, celebrate, and realign with my values and goals. I begin by pulling out my calendar and reviewing the year month…

  • Always Do Your Best: Aligning with Honesty & Integrity

    The fourth principle of The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz—Always Do Your Best—resonates deeply with my core values of honesty and integrity. At its heart, this agreement serves as both a mantra and a stress reliever. By committing to doing your best in all your actions, communication, and endeavors, you can let go of…

  • Don’t Make Assumptions: Embracing Intentionality

    The third principle of The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz—Don’t Make Assumptions—aligns powerfully with my core value of intentionality. Assumptions, while seemingly harmless, often pave the way for misunderstandings, unnecessary stress, and fractured relationships. Living intentionally means fostering clarity, curiosity, and thoughtful communication instead of operating on unspoken or inaccurate beliefs. The Cost of…